Have I mentioned I like a book or two? This year’s book reviews have been varied, both in the topics and how these have filtered into my life and work. Some of you will have been on the 2021 read along journey with me; I’ve enjoyed hearing your take on the books and welcome your thoughts for the titles for next year! So, as I do each year (just about in time for a festive giving period), here are the books read in 2021 that I think are a MUST READ!
For those new to the book club, each month I choose a book that I feel will be useful for personal development. They aren’t always the ones that arrive on the mainstream lists, but there is a very good chance they have underlying psychological leanings. Ultimately, it’s a book club I lead and has my personal preferences at the forefront!
The books that I have chosen for the round-up have left a longstanding impact; they made me change my views, my behaviour and have given me the tools to really make an impact on my life. I hope that they will do the same for you.
This book will not only open your eyes to the importance of connection but provide you with the hope that we can find relationships that suit our personalities and circumstances. Its overarching message is to pay attention to healthy relationships that bring value to your life. By being aware of your early red flags that demonstrate loneliness, can help you stay present and purposeful with those that matter. It is important to note that there are infrastructure, policy, politics and cultural changes that need to happen, but we can start with what we know best; ourselves.
The book you wish your parents had read by Philippa Perry
Very simply, this book answers the eternal question so many parents have: “How can we have better relationships?”. Whilst the book title can be a mouthful, The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read (and Your Children Will Be Glad You Did),* really is an insight into a new way of communicating with your children. What is so different about some of the other parenting books out there is that it encourages each parent to reflect on how THEY were parented, rather than prescribing a range of tools and techniques to our children.
Penned by Psychotherapist Philippa Perry, the book, accordingly the blurb “reveals the vital do’s and don’ts of relationships. This is a book for us all. Whether you are interested in understanding how your upbringing has shaped you, looking to handle your child’s feelings or wishing to support your partner, you will find indispensable information and realistic tips in these pages. Philippa Perry’s sane, sage and judgement-free advice is an essential resource on how to have the best possible relationships with the people who matter to you most.”
HumanKind (A Hopeful History) by Rutger Bregman
The international bestseller, HumanKind (A Hopeful History)* has topped the charts of many books of the year lists. With such an intriguing topic, it’s no surprise. Its main premise is challenging the belief that human beings are intrinsically selfish and governed by self-interest. Across all disciplines, from psychology, anthropology, philosophy, sociology, history, art and politics, a principle exists that humankind is innately self-centred. Rutger Bregman is proposing something opposite, reviewing generations of stories, studies and situations to present a new view; that we are kind and display altruism in ways you may not have perceived before.
A toolkit for modern life by Dr Emma Hepburn
The book claims to help us “cultivate positive habits and feel more confident, happier and in tune with yourself.” I have to say that, I think, this claim is more than justified. It’s practical, honest credible and, if I’m blunt, essential in every household that wants to take control of their mental wellness. So, off you go. Go get it and start creating your own toolkit!
If you are intrigued by the other books that were part of the 2021 (and the previous years) you can find the back catalogue here.
The personal development book club is part of the wider career coaching support that you find in my Facebook Group, aptly called “Creating Careers to Enjoy”. Join us to find out more!
Clara Wilcox is a straight talking, practical and experienced coach helping clients navigate the tricky waters of returning to work, career changes and professional development. The Balance Collective is a social enterprise focused on improving the lives of parents, by working together to build inner confidence and promote a healthy work/life balance.
